And guess what, ladies? Sexual abuse is all your fault, as usual.
The Daily Princetonian, Princeton’s student newspaper, ran an op-ed penned by an incredibly naive freshman yesterday that asserts that female rape victims are just plain askin’ for it. Writer Neagu uses the example of a rape case initiated by one of her friends to illustrate her point that if rape victims were more responsible, then they’d be less rape-able. Neagu must have a heart of steel, because she completely tosses her friend under the bus, claiming she “knew what would happen if she started drinking.” (Yes, because obviously every time I start drinking I am aware that it will inevitably lead to unwanted sexual intercourse.) Imagine the reaction of Neagu’s friend– not only does someone she trusted enough to reveal details of the situation think that the whole scandal was her fault, but Neagu declares so publicly, riding the crest of her friend’s painful experience to a conclusion that is uninformed, hurtful and–dare I say it–completely wrong.
But sexist op-eds are written all the time for student publications, which brings us to a broader point: do student press organizations have a responsibility to table student-submitted pieces that are wildly offensive, or should they function as a platform for all student voices, no matter how… ridiculous?
By now you’ve gathered that I completely disagree with Neagu’s piece, but I’m actually going to argue something (kind of) in support of her now: I think that The Daily Princetonian, whose motives may have been less than pure (using a freshman as link-bate is clever but cruel), may have done the right thing in publishing this piece, even though it’s a bunch of garbage. If student presses are genuinely meant to function as the mouthpiece for students on campus, then running this op-ed was a service. Some of those students may be less informed than others, but that doesn’t make their viewpoints less valuable. The problem, however, becomes where you draw the line. If there are racist students on campus who want to pen offensive op-eds, does The Daily Princetonian have a responsibility to run them? What topics are simply too taboo to broach via an op-ed? I’m unsure what my opinion is on these questions, but I know that I personally would feel uncomfortable running an op-ed on NYU Local that could be taken as racist, sexist, etc.
I e-mailed Jack Ackerman, the editor-in-chief of The Daily Princetonian, to see if he could comment on why the paper decided to run a piece that was so obviously offensive. He has yet to respond.








Look, I can paste links too!
Rape stats for this week in NYC. 24 reported rapes (dozens more unreported).
http://www.nyc.gov/html/nypd/downloads/pdf/crime_statistics/cscity.pdf
Sex crimes topic at the NYT–notice how, aside from the link above, no other articles are about false rape charges:
http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/subjects/s/sex_crimes/index.html?scp=1-spot&sq=rape&st=cse
No, that dark alley has nothing to do with your chances of getting raped:
http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2010/02/23/rape-analogy-the-walking-in-a-bad-neighborhood-theory/
Wasn’t the short skirt either:
http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/sexist/2010/02/16/on-short-skirts/
Tell this victim she deserved it, why don’t you:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1251364/JENNI-MURRAY-I-drunk-wearing-short-skirt-agreed-to-house-Does-REALLY-mean-I-deserved-raped.html
These stats say it all:
http://www.paralumun.com/issuesrapestats.htm
Okay I’m officially done.
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Guess what, fellas? Studies have shown that there is no difference between a convicted rapist and an average college-aged male when it comes to attitudes about forcing sex on a woman. If psychologists can’t tell the difference, then I’ll err on the side of caution, thank you very much. After all, if I don’t, I’m “asking for it,” right? Unless and until you prove otherwise, you’re suspect. Don’t want to be? Then next time your buddies make a rape joke, say something to tell them what idiots they are. Next time you read a story about rape, don’t be a rape apologist. Don’t want to be treated like a perpetrator? Be part of the solution.
Men who rape know what they are doing. So do women who rape, for that matter.
You can tell, you really can, if someone wants to have sex with you. The person is enthusiastic and gets into it. If someone is just lying there, or pushing you away, or unconscious, or saying no, then you are commiting rape (the sole exception being mutally agreed upon role play with safe words).
Don’t wanna be a rapist? Don’t have sex with someone who can’t say yes or exhibits one of the behaviors I just enumerated.
Why is it so difficult for some men to understand the whole consent issue? I have to believe it’s because they don’t want to.
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Men, stay the fuck away from drunk women.
DRINK ALONE LIKE A REAL MAN